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CafeMocha812 · 08-22-2008, 07:38 PM

First off, I'm going to say that I enjoy her company very much. She is more forgiving and comforting than I could have ever expected from anyone. It's just I've been questioning recently whether I should stay with her or not. I can live without her, it's just that I know how much it's going to hurt if I had to leave her. I only have eyes for her and she only has eyes for me...

However, she's very irrational at times.

She's 100 pounds... very skinny... and she gets sick very often. I've watched her diet ever since I started dating her 7 months ago, and she rarely eats. Her hair falls out very easily and I have voiced my concerns that maybe she should eat more protein. She gets very angry when I mention this and says that if she eats too much then she gets sick.

Her definition of eating too much? We recently went to Chili's because she had been complaining about how hungry she was and she wanted to go out to eat... when we got there, she ordered one bowl of broccoli and cheese soup... she ate a couple bites of it and then claimed it didn't taste right and that she was full. The only other thing she had eaten that day was tater tots from Sonic's.

She frequently asks me to take her to a buffet and I'll succumb to her pleas and take her, but she'll only eat a few items off the bar and then won't eat anything else the entire day.

It's distressing to me because I'm finding myself telling her that it's important for her to eat at least three times a day even if it's only a little bit. It's hard not to lecture her because she immediately works up an attitude and says "Don't argue with a female."

She always has to be right. Even if she's wrong, she says "Don't argue with a female!" and gets pissed at me. Earlier today, I took her to my parents house for my father's birthday and there were leftover barbecue ribs. My mom said we could have some. She politely declined, but later in the day when I met up with her and her mom I was talking about how I had eaten barbecue ribs for my father's birthday and she says "no you didn't." and I said... "yes... we cooked the barbecue ribs for my father's birthday." and she says "No, those were leftovers from yesterday." She doesn't live with my parents... she wasn't there when we cooked them... and then she ends it with her infamous "Don't argue with a female." I don't understand why she can't listen to anyone.

Additionally, I may be moving to St. Petersburg, FL from where I live which is about 7 hours away. She got extremely mad even though it was a in a career field that I've dreamed of going into. I asked her to move with me and she said no she's not leaving her town. She's never flown on an airplane. She's basically a small town country girl and has rarely ever traveled out of town or even out of state. I told her that it would be an amazing experience to go to a bigger city where neither of us has ever been. She said no her grandparents are old and she doesn't want to abandon them. Her mom and her father still live in town... and her mom's new boyfriend is moving into town soon...

I just don't know what to do anymore..

08-22-2008, 07:38 PM	#1 (permalink)
CafeMocha812 Upright	Should I leave her? First off, I'm going to say that I enjoy her company very much. She is more forgiving and comforting than I could have ever expected from anyone. It's just I've been questioning recently whether I should stay with her or not. I can live without her, it's just that I know how much it's going to hurt if I had to leave her. I only have eyes for her and she only has eyes for me... However, she's very irrational at times. She's 100 pounds... very skinny... and she gets sick very often. I've watched her diet ever since I started dating her 7 months ago, and she rarely eats. Her hair falls out very easily and I have voiced my concerns that maybe she should eat more protein. She gets very angry when I mention this and says that if she eats too much then she gets sick. Her definition of eating too much? We recently went to Chili's because she had been complaining about how hungry she was and she wanted to go out to eat... when we got there, she ordered one bowl of broccoli and cheese soup... she ate a couple bites of it and then claimed it didn't taste right and that she was full. The only other thing she had eaten that day was tater tots from Sonic's. She frequently asks me to take her to a buffet and I'll succumb to her pleas and take her, but she'll only eat a few items off the bar and then won't eat anything else the entire day. It's distressing to me because I'm finding myself telling her that it's important for her to eat at least three times a day even if it's only a little bit. It's hard not to lecture her because she immediately works up an attitude and says "Don't argue with a female." She always has to be right. Even if she's wrong, she says "Don't argue with a female!" and gets pissed at me. Earlier today, I took her to my parents house for my father's birthday and there were leftover barbecue ribs. My mom said we could have some. She politely declined, but later in the day when I met up with her and her mom I was talking about how I had eaten barbecue ribs for my father's birthday and she says "no you didn't." and I said... "yes... we cooked the barbecue ribs for my father's birthday." and she says "No, those were leftovers from yesterday." She doesn't live with my parents... she wasn't there when we cooked them... and then she ends it with her infamous "Don't argue with a female." I don't understand why she can't listen to anyone. Additionally, I may be moving to St. Petersburg, FL from where I live which is about 7 hours away. She got extremely mad even though it was a in a career field that I've dreamed of going into. I asked her to move with me and she said no she's not leaving her town. She's never flown on an airplane. She's basically a small town country girl and has rarely ever traveled out of town or even out of state. I told her that it would be an amazing experience to go to a bigger city where neither of us has ever been. She said no her grandparents are old and she doesn't want to abandon them. Her mom and her father still live in town... and her mom's new boyfriend is moving into town soon... I just don't know what to do anymore..