Since the two of you have hardly even spoken since his relationship with her, I wouldn't give it a lot of thought. He hasn't been much of a friend regardless, so why go through the motions and expense of all of the travel etc. Likely he will be so occupied with final touches to the wedding, groom's dinner etc that there won't be a whole lot of time to visit. You shouldn't need to give much of an excuse to explain and it isn't like you were asked to be in the wedding party. Send him a note though to let him know of your plans either way.
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