The hairbrush and the lamp would have bothered me. The other items, as annoying as they might be, I could chalk up to coincidence or bad juju or something. Anyone could have accidentally not put the lid to Tylenol back on if they were at your house for fifteen minutes, and the detergent thing tells me that one of them simply doesn't know how to use a dishwasher. I'd include an instruction on it in a note if I had her do the chore again. She might not have known that she left a surprise for you in the toilet - maybe she used the restroom last thing before she left?
Picking someone else's hair out of my soap or hairbrush I would not care for. Having my personal possessions laying around in a fashion as though they'd not been cared for I would not have liked. I'd ask her about the lamp. The hairbrush maybe. I don't think it needs to be overly confrontational - depending on how good you are with people, I can see this being completely painless and uncomfortable, with the result that future stays are more pleasant when you return. And thanking her (and him) for the good things when you returned also takes the sting out of any criticism.
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