Funerals aren't for the dead anyway, they are for the living. If this is how the family remembers their ... relative, then so be it. If the family truly wanted to waste their dime posting an insult on not yet cold grave.. go for it. Call that cold and calloused, but I don't see anything truly wrong with it. Personally I would have skipped the notice and had a cheap and simple burial or cremation procedure. Apparently they had a lot to get out of their systems. I find the notion on going to the trouble of making such a notice ridiculous but I have no idea of the trouble that was in that family.
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