Did we all lose our self respect?
The thread about vanity sizing got me thinking and that can be a dangerous thing.
What are so many women thinking when they get dressed? Do they all own fun house mirrors?
What I'm referring to, are women who are large, especially in the stomach, who dress like they are svelte.
It really got to me when I took my son to Sesame Place a few weeks ago. There were sooooo many overweight and obese women in BIKINIS! Um, I'm thin, and I stick my pasty ass in a tankini. There was one woman who had a serious vajummock (where the stomach hangs down over the front of your shorts - worse than a muffin top) and a triangle bikini top on with her shorts. I think I almost threw up in my mouth a little when I saw her.
Then 2 wks ago I was at the beach and there were all of these girls in their late teens and early 20's with serious beer guts in itty bitty bikinis and a large middle aged woman with a tankini and enormous tits hanging out while she was there with her middle school aged son.
I realize that women come in all shapes and sizes, but that doesn't mean you look appropriate in everything. Clothes are out there for every body type. I've had a motto for years, "just because it comes in your size, doesn't mean you should wear it!" All these women are doing is drawing negative attention to themselves.
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