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meh, the rest of life can also be like high school, but the good part is that it is a high school with hundreds of millions of people, so you get a much better chance to choose who you spend your time with. As much as some people believe that women are complex and peculiar creatures, I have found that your best chance of attracting women is to have an identifiable image--be something, whether it be an athlete, writer, cynic, doper, programmer, photographer, whatever. It doesn't matter what you are, as long as you aren't just bland and boring. Plain nice guys get nothing. Nice guys who are SOMETHING, get recognized. You will never attract all the girls anyway, some girls would turn down a date with Brad Pitt of Tom Brady. Shoot, take photography classes (most chicks are flattered to be subjects, especially if it is arty), work on a political campaign (girls like guys who stand for something), find a sport or activity that you excel at (even solo sports like golf are OK), If you have an interesting life people will want to be around you, and it will keep you from looking for girls, which paradoxically is attractive to women. Just my $.02. good luck.
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--Sam Harris
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