You're in high school. They're looking for the "bad boy". Personally, I'd not give it another thought until university/college. Besides, you have plenty of time!
I didn't meet my first girlfriend until I was 24; well out of university, job in hand, career planned out.
The "right" one will come along eventually. I'm still waiting, myself. Meanwhile, I just continue with my life wherever I choose to go (and wherever it takes me). You should do the same...