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1. I didn't say I would 'worry.' I said it would make me wonder.

2. In a way, yes. Ever seen Vertigo?

I am only speaking from my own personal point of view. I said quite explicitly that there was nothing wrong with having the preference, but I would not be thrilled at finding out after I had been dating someone for a while that I was chosen for matching certain pre-determined physical criteria.

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