Lots of folks making assumptions here.
I've never been against IVF and although I believe adoption should be looked at as an option before couples spend hundreds of thousands of dollars at a mere possibility.
My guess at why I'm not overly thrilled with IVF?
I've been very close to a couple that went through this and personally seen the results of the agony of years of attempts for naught. Yes, I realize when it does happen, it's glorious. But when it doesn't, I don't think anything prepares the couple (person?) if it's just not going to happen for them.
