i got rid of some people that i thought were "my people" and who turned out to be pretty damn toxic.
best move i ever made.
even though i ended up alone for months.
i talked with work people and ended up with one in My People list.
eventually i lucked out and found a group that has fluctuated with the seasons, births and deaths, and menstrual cycles.
those who are meant to be Your People will find you, though they may flux in and out of your life sometimes.
Drink coffee out, find some group in the local paper and go to a meeting (avoid anything mentioning "Nigeria" or "soap making" and you should be fine, Tyler), or just go enjoy doing something.
People who mean something see you enjoying something and connect.
Or not.
And in that case, cats rock.
