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Originally Posted by Katyanna
I am not one to want to entertain people all the time. I don't really care to be running all over town either. I had some very good friends that felt the same way as I did and we would often do different things, all of us on a budget with kids. Times, change, people move off. I am not cold and unfriendly but I do not care for the bar scene or spending loads of money for a good time which a lot of people do.
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I am the same way. There are people who am casual with (mostly people who live in the same apartment complex as me) who I might have a cup of coffee with once in awhile, but for the most part, I am friendless by choice. Maybe I am just lazy, or selfish, or both, but friendships are hard to maintain. It's like being in a relationship without the sex. I can only think of 2 friends of mine, (one of them is a family member so she has no choice in being my friend lol) , that are like minded on the subject. We'll call and bitch to each other about something in our lives if we need to, or need a shoulder to cry on, but other than that, we're not at each others throats if we don't see or talk to each other for a few weeks. Friends are for high school, right now, I'm happy just focusing on my kids and making sure my house is somewhat clean and the bills are paid. After all that is done, I'd rather sit at home entertaining myself with a book, the computer or a movie rather than having to primp up and go out with a friend.