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I would say you guys should stick it out a little longer...it's too soon.
I know, I'm such a bore, everyone is telling you to leave everything and go for it. I'm not saying you shouldn't...I'm saying you should be a little more sure that it will be a good call, especially because you'll have to give up on your masters I expect. Of course, there's no way of being sure it will really work out in the long-term, even when you think you know someone well...for me, I'd definitely make sure that person isn't the ONLY reason I'm moving, especially that early on in getting to know someone. That way, if it goes to shit, I would still have something to prop me up if I'm feeling down.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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