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The decision would be hers, as it is today without the incapacitation. My preference would be to maintain the emotional intimacy. I cannot say that it would not bother me if she began a long term exclusive relationship with another man, but I don't think that having a long term / permanent girlfriend would bother me. I try very hard to be open and non-jealous, but our emotional and intellectual intimacy have a great deal invested, and I cannot see releasing that easily or willingly. Physically, not such a big deal. She is my partner for many more things other than just sex. All that being said, if I cannot enjoy sex, or some semblance thereof, I would have some serious re-evaluation to do. It's been a rather high priority to me for as long as I can remember identifying my priorities.
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