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james t kirk · 08-09-2008, 12:30 PM

Depends on the guy and where he's at in life.

When I was 23 or so, I was dumped by my first love. Long sad story. Anyway, no matter what she told me, I wanted to know more, more questions, more angles, more more more more. There was just no reason that I heard that made any sense.

Bottom line, that was then.

I'd have to say in since about 2000 or so, I really don't want to know the reasons, nor do I care.

I remember once dating a woman briefly and she told me that we were through and started to tell me everything that was wrong with me, with us being together, blah blah blah. I cut her off mid sentence after about 30 seconds (maybe less) and just said, "you know, I REALLY don't need to have this conversation" and said good bye and hung up the phone.

Never looked back.

Did the same thing back in November 2007. She started in on all the bullshit and I just cut her off mid bitch - I don't want to hear this.

I see no point in belabouring the issue. The end result is the same.

I don't want to hear all the bullshit, it only makes me feel worse.

08-09-2008, 12:30 PM	#17 (permalink)
james t kirk Junkie Location: Toronto	Depends on the guy and where he's at in life. When I was 23 or so, I was dumped by my first love. Long sad story. Anyway, no matter what she told me, I wanted to know more, more questions, more angles, more more more more. There was just no reason that I heard that made any sense. Bottom line, that was then. I'd have to say in since about 2000 or so, I really don't want to know the reasons, nor do I care. I remember once dating a woman briefly and she told me that we were through and started to tell me everything that was wrong with me, with us being together, blah blah blah. I cut her off mid sentence after about 30 seconds (maybe less) and just said, "you know, I REALLY don't need to have this conversation" and said good bye and hung up the phone. Never looked back. Did the same thing back in November 2007. She started in on all the bullshit and I just cut her off mid bitch - I don't want to hear this. I see no point in belabouring the issue. The end result is the same. I don't want to hear all the bullshit, it only makes me feel worse. Last edited by james t kirk; 08-09-2008 at 12:35 PM..