It may be my own personal experience but most people are too self-centered to devote themselves well enough to be there as a "really good friend" or someone to call when things aren't going well.
There are exceptions to the rule but they are so very few and far between that when they come along you'd better do your best to hold onto them.
But all in all, this boils down to you and no one else. I've found that I attract all sorts of people but it's the needy types that stick because I'm too comfortable in my relationship with my s/o.
Maybe a little introspection will sort you out.
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