I see people getting bent out of shape already, so I'm going to preface this by admitting I don't know you or your girlfriend other than what you've said in your post (and the reactions here are frankly weird to me). But here's what I think based on this limited knowledge:
This doesn't make any sense to me, and forgive me for being blunt, but this sounds like a situation where your girl is either:
a) feeling you out to see what your reaction might be when something really happens, or
b) desperately trying to get emotionally closer to you.
and here's why I think that.
If she's pregnant, despite the biological unlikelihood with already having a period, she's already a month pregnant. A pregnancy test would have worked a couple of weeks ago, and certainly now after a month. Why is she "promising" to test everyday. Not only is the testing everyday not necessary, neither is the promise to take it necessary. Just take the freakin test.....once please. I'm kind of surprised this never crossed anyone's mind after your description of the events, and that everyone's immediate reaction was "help her get through it".
I don't understand her reaction of "let me go tell my boyfriend that I think I'm over a month pregnant without having taken a test and despite an interim period, because I'm two days late for my next period and slightly nauseous and cranky. That sounds more pre-menstrual than anything.
Like Lasereth said.....buy her the test, that's all you need to do to help her get through it. Until she takes it and shows you the results, than your reaction of "it's probably nothing" is spot on and she's got no reason to get angry with it.
If and when this turns out to be nothing, I'd be real curious to know when the next time you have sex with this girl is. Make her happy and marry her now, or I think you've got a real stressful relationship ahead of you.
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Originally Posted by djscience
Alright - this evening's test has come back negative. She also had a little spot of blood, which she took as a sign that her period was about to start. She's gonna take the other one in the morning if she hasn't actually started yet. All signs are currently pointing to "no". Well, at least on my end. She is just as scared as ever, thinking that the test was a false-negative.
I guess tomorrow will tell for sure.
Oh, and Will - thanks for the link! That was BRAND NEW INFORMATION! [/SARCASM].
Everyone else - thanks for the help!
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I missed this post. As an afterthought, all signs were pointing to "no" quite some time ago. The fact that she's gotten a negative test back and still thinking it's a false-negative, after all her pre-menstrual symtpoms which have now moved onto spotting...I don't know dude.....is anyone thinking what I'm thinking?