Breakups should be about irreconcilable differences of some kind. Considering that I would never, ever, every cheat, I would want to hear a specific reason or reasons as to why. It's not about arguing the points, but when a break-up happens and there are words, those are words that usually should have happened earlier. It's about two things: closure and gaining a better understanding of an objective perception of me as a person. These are both important, and hearing "it's not working out" or "there's someone else" really aren't respectful of my want to grow as a person. Why isn't it working out? Why is this "someone else" a better choice?
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