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Looks like I'm the only one who thinks it's best not to tell him about the other guy. If you tell him there's someone else, he may think that all he has to do to get you back is be better than the other guy. He may think (despite what you tell him) that the other guy seduced you and you're not thinking straight, or that your relationship with him was good and would have lasted without interference.
If you present this to him as 'our relationship is broken and we can't/I won't fix it' that should sound more final.
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And you believe Bush and the liberals and divorced parents and gays and blacks and the Christian right and fossil fuels and Xbox are all to blame, meanwhile you yourselves create an ad where your kid hits you in the head with a baseball and you don't understand the message that the problem is you.
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