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Originally Posted by djscience
Plus, im not trying to take us into "I fingered my girlfriend - is she pregnanat?!!?!?!" territory, but one of the things I was wondering about is, can she have a period in between intercourse and fertilization? Can the sperm live long enough to make it through all that?
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Negative. It's not just a matter of living long enough, there are two other things working against pregnancy. First, the, let's say, tide is against your swimmers. And most of them don't make it anywhere when the waters are still. PH is all out of whack, etc. Sperm only last a day or two in the vagina, and her period will basically flush whatever's in there. Second, ovulation and the relatively few fertile days that bracket it happens out in the middle of the cycle somewhere, not near the beginning or end. So if you had sex with her, then she had a period within a few days, odds are very good there was nobody home for you to fertilize.
Now: We human beings
love us some drama. The question you want to be asking (but not out loud!) is: what is she getting out of not taking a pregnancy test and settling this thing? Once you have that sorted out, see if you can't find a way to supply a substitute for this particular piece of drama, so she's freed up to just pee on the damn stick.