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Originally Posted by Halx
You're not scoring any points by sitting back and going "Don't worry, its probably stress." Your cool attitude now won't be a consolation later when it all turns out to be nothing. Be concerned for her and help her get an answer.
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An excellent point, Halx.
Don't get me wrong. I had trouble sleeping last night. She knows that I am concerned, and she also knows that I am here for her. We have had pretty lengthy discussions, in which we discussed what we would do if it turns out that she is. However, when she asked if I thought stress could cause this, I wasn't going to lie to her. She's obviously more worried about it than I am, however she is now constantly stating that she "doesn't think she is, but is going to test anyway, just so we can be positive".
Plus, im not trying to take us into "I fingered my girlfriend - is she pregnanat?!!?!?!" territory, but one of the things I was wondering about is, can she have a period in between intercourse and fertilization? Can the sperm live long enough to make it through all that? You know, medical questions that should have been covered by my HIGH SCHOOL back in the day, but just weren't.