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That's the thing, we do talk about it a lot... enough for me to know we're into to the same things and that she's not being satisfied as well as she could be. I almost feel like we talk about it too much sometimes. I think one of the big issues is that I lack confidence in this area. Before I met her, my sexual experience included several one night stands and that's about it. She has been in 3 or 4 longer term relationships so I feel like she's had more of a chance to explore her sexuality and for some reason that is intimidating to me.
I know from our discussions that in the past she has been much more sexually active with her other partners. She says this is because those relationships were based more on sex than anything else whereas we have a true 'soulmate' type of connection. I believe that to some degree, but I also believe we could be having much better (and a lot more) sex than we do. Right now we have sex once a week on a bad week and 3 to 4 times a week on a good week. I want every week to be a good week and I know she does too.
I guess that's why I'm asking about books and such. I feel like if I expand my sexual knowledge, then I'll be able to please her better, thus I'll gain more confidence in the bedroom.
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-Sam
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