Tophat665

DIH, it's strange, but, while I admit to a certain preference for a younger looking woman, the definition of younger looking seems to be aging with Mrs Hat. It so often seems to me that the titty board is populated with counterfeit 12 year olds, and I find that as the missus, and more tellingly I'm sure, the various startlets of adult film on whom I imprinted in my teens, age, my definition of attractive ages with them and what I used to find unacceptable flaws start to fall under my radar. Maybe there's a saturation point, beyond which perception won't erase age, but me and mine are drawing towards the end of our fourth decades. Also, after steadily dropping off for some time (2 kids, 2 years apart will do that), now that they can be unsupervised for considerable periods, the sex has gotten more frequent, more inventive, and more passionate. So it's a matter of getting a second wind and a fresh look at it.

Not, mind you, that I would turn down a busty, shaved, redheaded, 20 year old nymphomaniac who wanted to come home and do the both of us, but I am not going to throw away steady good sex just to sniff a strange crotch, no matter how attractive the surrounding woman. (Within reason, mind you. I am sure that somewhere out there is the proposition I could not say no to. I just hope it involves the missus.)
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To take a specific issue, I'd call this the 2+2 formula for hot sex. Long experience and focussed attention along with a willingness to try something new can lead to very hot sex indeed. That's the 1+3 formula. Both get you to hot sex. Will it be the same as it was at the outset? Of course not! But it can be even better because you know what buttons to push and so, presumably, does your parter.

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