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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
Thank you, MSD, for saying this. Mirth, if you go out and buy one of those books, you won't end up with what you're looking for.
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I was being diplomatic by sayin git as nicely as I did. I'm glad someone agrees with me
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Originally Posted by Mirth
But then again, "nice guys finish last", right? So, I'm a little bit confused how to act towards women, aside from acting confident.
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"Nice Guys" finish last because they've convinced themselves that being nice is the only thing that should matter and spend no time developing other redeeming qualities; this leads to them being whiny, depressed, and antisocial because they still can't get a girl or keep her interested. Don't think of yourself as a nice guy, and definitely don't advertise it, because if you're a good person, your personality will show through no matter what you're doing. Trust me on this, I used to be a "nice guy" and it got me nowhere in life.
We're going to try a little exercise for you; I want you to read this, say an answer to the question out loud within 5 seconds, and post whatever it was that you said. I put it in a spoiler tag because I don't want you to read it ahead of time and have time to think. If you blank out or can't think of anything, don't be afraid to say so.
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I'm being wingman for you at a bar, or party, or wherever we are trying to meet people. I see a girl I know from somewhere, introduce you to her, and she asks you, "Why did MSD tell me I should get to know you?"