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Jenna · 08-01-2008, 11:00 PM

So, either my guy and I are unbelievably lucky, or I'm infertile. I'm not planning on having children anytime soon - but it still is worrying me.

So, my guy and I have been together for 3+ years. We've been having sex for that entire time. We used a condom in the beginning, got tested, and then I went on HBC. HBC was awful for me - I lost my sex drive entirely. So I decided to get off of it. So that was about a year of protected sex.

After that, we kind of got "lazy" and decided to just use the pull-out method. We've been doing that for 2+ years. And, to my amazement, I haven't gotten pregnant.

I've never had a UTI or yeast infection to my knowledge. My menstrual cycle is pretty crazy though, I'll go a month without getting my period (which can lead to many pregnancy scares) and then I'll get it the next month. It just hit me the other day that, "hey, we've been doing it using the pull-out method for 2 years, WHY HAVEN'T I GOTTEN PREGNANT YET?" Either my boyfriend is perfect at pulling out, or he just has no sperm in his pre-ejaculate... or I'm infertile, or there's something wrong with me?

I don't know, am I over thinking this? Should I be concerned?

I know it's not my boyfriend who has the issues - as he's gotten a woman pregnant before dating me, but she ended up getting an abortion.

08-01-2008, 11:00 PM	#1 (permalink)
Jenna Psycho Location: Wisconsin	Infertility? So, either my guy and I are unbelievably lucky, or I'm infertile. I'm not planning on having children anytime soon - but it still is worrying me. So, my guy and I have been together for 3+ years. We've been having sex for that entire time. We used a condom in the beginning, got tested, and then I went on HBC. HBC was awful for me - I lost my sex drive entirely. So I decided to get off of it. So that was about a year of protected sex. After that, we kind of got "lazy" and decided to just use the pull-out method. We've been doing that for 2+ years. And, to my amazement, I haven't gotten pregnant. I've never had a UTI or yeast infection to my knowledge. My menstrual cycle is pretty crazy though, I'll go a month without getting my period (which can lead to many pregnancy scares) and then I'll get it the next month. It just hit me the other day that, "hey, we've been doing it using the pull-out method for 2 years, WHY HAVEN'T I GOTTEN PREGNANT YET?" Either my boyfriend is perfect at pulling out, or he just has no sperm in his pre-ejaculate... or I'm infertile, or there's something wrong with me? I don't know, am I over thinking this? Should I be concerned? I know it's not my boyfriend who has the issues - as he's gotten a woman pregnant before dating me, but she ended up getting an abortion.