From a female perspective, I don't really care about distance other than the fact that its funny when hes aiming for my face or breasts and I can hear it whizz past my ear and smack the wall.
Now volume on the other hand, and this may just be psychological, but I feel like I did a really good job if there is a lot. To me it means I have had him worked up for a good while and the release is huge. None of this may actually hold any real meaning, but its fun for us.
So all in all in both matters its just kinda an added "novelty" to sex that makes it fun.
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Frivolity, at the edge of a Moral Swamp, hears Hymn-Singing in the Distance and dons the Galoshes of Remorse. ~Edward Gorey
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