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ShaniFaye · 07-23-2008, 03:54 PM

I'm having a really hard time understanding why anyone who would think they are playing 2nd fiddle to an S/O's interest/hobby is in a relationship at all, when the interest is not all consuming. Just because a person wants to enjoy something that doesnt involve you doesnt meant you're playing 2nd fiddle. He should rank high enough with you that you would not feel abandoned just because he hangs with his friends (and family) for a few hours every now and then.

That may sound a little harsh....but I think that being jealous over a person interest is a little selfish. God knows Dave and I can be together 24/7 and never get bored...but even I know that he deserves times with his friends without me around.

(Please note that I mean when your s/o has a nite a week or a nite a month that he does something without you, not when your s/o is so totally consumed by it they dont do ANYTHING else)

07-23-2008, 03:54 PM	#10 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	I'm having a really hard time understanding why anyone who would think they are playing 2nd fiddle to an S/O's interest/hobby is in a relationship at all, when the interest is not all consuming. Just because a person wants to enjoy something that doesnt involve you doesnt meant you're playing 2nd fiddle. He should rank high enough with you that you would not feel abandoned just because he hangs with his friends (and family) for a few hours every now and then. That may sound a little harsh....but I think that being jealous over a person interest is a little selfish. God knows Dave and I can be together 24/7 and never get bored...but even I know that he deserves times with his friends without me around. (Please note that I mean when your s/o has a nite a week or a nite a month that he does something without you, not when your s/o is so totally consumed by it they dont do ANYTHING else) __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!* Last edited by ShaniFaye; 07-23-2008 at 04:00 PM..