I'd have to second what shesus said. The number one thing is to use it as an outlet for you to develop your interests. For me, it was hard at first because at the time I didn't have another passion as big as his that I could pursue in the downtime alone. Slowly, I have built up a list of things I start to look forward to doing when the boyfriend's special interests take over.
__________________
Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
|