yes, you should rank higher than getting drunk and playing guitar, but.....
guys need their toys. Whether it's golf, motorcycles or guitars and beer, they need them.
Make a deal with him-on the nights he wants to play with the boys, you get a chance to do things YOU want to do. Under no circumstances should you just sit home and stew.
It gives you both a chance to be yourselves and not half a couple and gives you something to talk about. Don't make him choose, though. Even if you win, in the long run, you'll lose.
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