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hey just an update:
Well it's been a month and a bit since we ended it. I've actually rebounded quite well and had a couple of dates, go out with a new group of friends, meet tons of new people. And I am at least beginning to get over what we had.
Recently we started speaking, being friendly, and I notice I'm still attracted but not interested in dating her, at all. Tonight we begin talking and it comes down to the one issue that essentially ended our relationship from our first year in (just in the past few months it became unbearable). It almost becomes a fight and I just say fuck it, I'm not going to walk on eggshells, and lay it out and she says "Ok. I understand" and she says she finally understands and is having a small epiphany.
I almost cried because I was so happy. It was like the weight of the world was lifted off my shoulders and provided a lot of closure, as well as made me feel great for helping what used to be my best friend. She needed this lesson so bad and for me to finally make her realize what everyone has been saying... I can't even describe it.
Anyways life is going well, and I really love it. Thanks for all the support you guys gave me when I was struggling. It meant a lot
-Taylor
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ME: I officially love coffee more then you now.
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