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Originally Posted by Redlemon
I sowed very little, but that's my personality. I don't think I would have found the woman I have now if I'd been the type to sow indiscriminately, and for her I am quite thankful.
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I feel the same way... not that I wouldn't have found ktspktsp if I had sowed more oats, but I wouldn't have been in the right place to appreciate him, if I had. I was also pretty repelled by people who sowed a lot of oats, so if he had been one of those types, I don't think I would have paid much attention to him, either.
Basically, we were attracted to each other as what we were, lack of experience included--no pretense of trying to be more than that. And I truly loved that being the foundation of our relationship. We're more like the ballroom dancers that Poppinjay mentioned than the oats-sowing types, which is part of our compatibility. Not to say that we wouldn't explore more of our sexuality as a couple as the years go on--but we're not banking on it, necessarily.