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I have been with my now wife for 12 years, married for 3. It has never been as frequent as I would like and I have discussed and argued about this with her many times. I have come to the realization that it will never be as frequent as I would like, which I can live with. My main problem, and I would guess this is a problem is many long term relationships, is that when we do have sex it is boring. It is almost the exact same every time and has been for years. I can't even remember the last time I thought we had great or exciting sex. Now it is to the point that even if she is willing to have sex I have to have a debate with myself if I want to have the same boring sex or masturbate to porn on the internet or Penthouse Letters.
It is pretty depressing actually.
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