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Originally Posted by Redlemon
Milky: I just took another scan through this thread. I see that you have asked your husband for more frequent sex; however, I don't see a statement of what his response to that request has been?
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Originally I didn't come out and ask him I would just make moves and he'd push me a way and roll and say he was tired in a whiny voice.
But since starting this thread i have actually talked him him a bit about it:
When I tease with him playfully he smiles at me and says "You're a freak," which I take as a compliment.
But when we finally talked about it seriously, he said he would see what he could do, he said he just isn't getting enough sleep lately, but if he can get some sleep I can get some lovin'.
He said his back has been bothering him lately. He assured me that doesn't affect the sex, he said during sex it is like "what back?", however it does affect his sleep, so he doesn't get the same quality of sleep that he needs.
We talked about how I want it all the time and although he enjoys it, he just thinks every day is a little excessive. but he didn't want to have like set times or anything. Which is cool with me, I have just started messing with him during movie time and dinner time and other non sleep times. Although he still gets sleepy afterward.
He wants sleep I want sex, the compromise is to make sure the sex doesn't get in the way of his sleep. I think I can do that, but remember we are working around when little kids are awake too, so that puts some limits on us.
Anyway, still wont happen everyday, at least not until his back is better and he is sleeping better-but it will happen more often if I am sure to initiate at the right times.