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Originally Posted by Lasereth
You're waiting for no reason to be blunt. The first time is probably going to be a disaster. There is no magical romance with candles and love music going on in the background as you slowly but seductively look into her eyes and start "making love." What will actually happen is you will try, screw up, laugh, get really messy and be embarrassed. Might as well get it over with!
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Lasereth says pretty much what I wanted to say, and I thought little_tippler summed it up nicely here:
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Originally Posted by little_tippler
The fact is there is no good way. It just happens. It really isn't all that. It's a step, but only one among many others you take in life. Life is no beautiful fairytale. Sex is just sex. You will likely realize that when you actually go for it.
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It's kind of one of those things you've just got to do. You've built it up into this huge thing, and it isn't. The real key is to be with someone you're comfortable with. You want someone who is willing to screw up, laugh, get really messy, and laugh some more with you. I've been having sex for a while now, and for a while with the same partner, and we still have little accidents and oopsies during sex that make us laugh uncontrollably. You want to be with that person when the time comes--whoever that is. Love isn't necessarily necessary in this case--just a really good sense of humor.