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Originally Posted by Redlemon
From this male's perspective, masturbation takes less energy than sex with a partner, even if it is just receiving a blow job. The feedback loop is smaller; I know what I am feeling and can adjust accordingly. With sex, that feedback loop has to be communicated through a second party.
(Of course, having sex with my wife is more fun than masturbation... but it does require more energy.)
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Exactly ditto every piece of this.
Sex with another person--including sex where I'm entirely passive, which wouldn't work for me anyway--requires a level of focus and concentration that masturbation doesn't. I can (and occasionally do) jerk off in my sleep.