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Originally Posted by Milkyway
I would think jerking off would be more work than getting off with a SO, then somebody else is doing the work too. I got nothing against self pleasure, but I can say no to that faster than I can say no to some mutual lovin'.
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From this male's perspective, masturbation takes less energy than sex with a partner, even if it is just receiving a blow job. The feedback loop is smaller; I know what I am feeling and can adjust accordingly. With sex, that feedback loop has to be communicated through a second party.
(Of course, having sex with my wife is more
fun than masturbation... but it does require more energy.)