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Originally Posted by Tully Mars
After years of several problems and nearly no sex my ex and I started having serious discussions of what each other expected/wanted. Everything from household chores, recreational activities and yes sex. She said she thought sex should be "about the regular amount." At first I thought alright, progress! But I thought about it for a moment and asked "what's regular to you?" "I don't know, once... maybe once every other month?"
"Check please!"
Sad thing is for the first 12 yrs or so it was 2-3 times a week. For about the last 10 yrs of our relationship I didn't even realize how far apart we were, but that's a whole another thread.
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I'm in the same boat as Tully was/is. We started out doing it several times a week. After 8 years of marriage and two kids she went the opposite direction as you, she lost interest. We average once a week or less...
BTW, If he really has a lack of energy have him get his testosterone level checked. I had no problems with my libido or getting an erection, but I consistently had low energy. My doc put me on bi-weekly testosterone shots and I have more energy now than I've had since I was in my 20's.