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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru
For the record, if I were guaranteed to have sex once a week, I would think I had hit the jackpot.
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After years of several problems and nearly no sex my ex and I started having serious discussions of what each other expected/wanted. Everything from household chores, recreational activities and yes sex. She said she thought sex should be "about the regular amount." At first I thought alright, progress! But I thought about it for a moment and asked "what's regular to you?" "I don't know, once... maybe once every other month?"
"Check please!"
Sad thing is for the first 12 yrs or so it was 2-3 times a week. For about the last 10 yrs of our relationship I didn't even realize how far apart we were, but that's a whole another thread.