My parents never talked to me about it. My Dad caught me numerous times surfing for porn, but it was never discussed.
And despite the lack of communication I still managed to figure it all out and become what some might refer to as a pervert or a deviant. The taboo itself was probably broken the minute I took the long giant leap onto the internet and discovered ALL of the things people do for gratification.
As for sex itself, my first time was with a girl who liked it very rough, which pushed me out of my comfort zone at first, but blew my mind once I got into it.
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"There is no need to suppose that human beings differ very much one from another: but it is true that the ones who come out on top are the ones who have been trained in the hardest school." -- Thucydides
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