Originally Posted by ratbastid

You know, there are times when it's just not worth the trouble. Especially after you've been together a long time and you sort of get into a groove with each other, and it's basically the same every time... Sex takes a lot of effort, and there are times I'm just not up for it. I'd gladly take a blow job, or I'd masturbate, or I'd finger her, or some combination of those things, but actual home-run all-the-way sex... Sometimes, that's just more work than I'm willing to do. My girls know that and know it doesn't mean anything about how attracted I am to them or anything like that. There are times we just take care of them, or take care of ourselves individually, or whatever. Or they take care of each other, which is nice, and usually ends up with me being interested in actual sex before too long...