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Has sex gotten routine and you guys do the same thing in the same bed each night?
Have either of you changed a lot physically in the past few years, I don't know if it would cause it, but it is something to look at. Are you guys distracted by watching too much TV, having too many things to do or not getting enough sleep?
And as a guy, I wouldn't mind at all if a woman initiated.
And I wouldn't have a problem with you masturbating in bed next to me, except that it would cause me to want to join in. Make sure you try for sex first, but if it doesn't happen then go for it. And if he does get offended or upset, that is whhen you need to have a talk with him about what is going on.
Or his sex drive just may be slowing down a little. I know I don't masturbate everyday. I'm not sure what would happen if there was a girl here to get me in the mood everyday though...it sounds really good to me.
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