True, true. Going to see apartments today, price shopping, figuring out my budget and what I can afford. I talked to my brother on the phone (who is my confidante) and he thinks I should have everything lined up and ready before I approach our parents. He agrees that it's time for me to bounce but to have a plan regarding how I'm going to pay them back. My parents are tough on us about money but I know ultimately they would care about my safety more. When I move, I will not be telling the ex where I'm going nor will I allow him help me pack or lift a single thing. I just want to sever all ties as soon as possible... I also contacted a couple of his family members to let them know about the situation. I'm sure he will be needing their help once he's out on his own, drinking himself into oblivion again.
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Kim
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