Thank you, both.. *hugs* I don't know why I feel so embarassed and ashamed to talk to my folks about it, I guess because I was too naive to realize what was really going on and I feel stupid for not being a better judge of character. That said, I'm not some insecure girl who's going to "stand by my man" no matter what. I have a brain and I know this situation can't go on like this. I do plan on having a talk with him as well, when he's sober, so I can explain to him why it is impossible for us to live together. I already know what's going to say. He will promise to change, but it will be a hollow promise, so I just have to stick to my guns and make sure he understands that one of us, or both of us, will be moving out in the very near future.
Any tips on how to approach him in a calm, matter-of-fact way? I don't want to send him off into another drinking rage...
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