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Originally Posted by Alta
I see your points about the 'rule' being situationally dependent. But it worries me that the guy in scenario is extremely needy and you might advise him to 'use' this rule to hide his neediness. Well, guess what, it'll come out anyway.
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Agreed. Thats why I wouldn't follow it, myself.
But even insecure guys deserve a shot. The beginning of a relationship can be pretty tenuous though, and that's the only place for this 'rule.' For all his problems, maybe his issues aren't so pronounced once the initial hump is behind him? If a guy needs a little help, who's to say he doesn't deserve it?