Oh hey yeah.
My first husband would actually freak out if my weight jumped by 5 pounds and god forbid if I started to have curves and resemble a woman.
I am talking about going from 125 to 130 pounds as a 5'7" person.
I know he was intially attracted to me when I looked more androgynous,
downright young boyish.
I discovered later his innability to deal with his latent homosexuality.
I woulda been cool with that...but he never could, and
flatly refused to discuss it.
The most hurtful part was that he hid under the excuse that
he found me boring.
I still have pity and love for the man.
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