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blktour · 06-26-2008, 11:05 AM

I actually agree with Willravel. what people dont understand is that he is not looking at it as a "i want to mess this guys career up." but more of a " this guy has a problem, and I am a problem solver."

Everyone who thinks he is doing it to ruin the guy, is not even listening to what he is saying. I am sure that there are "many ways to skin a cat" but Willravel chooses to skin it this way. but in reality the guy did it to himself. He needs to take responsibility for his actions. Coke is NOT ok in the work enviorment. when he is coked up and it effects his work, then that is called an addiction.

I agree that he gets his point across. In my work envoirment it is black and white. I do not go to make friends, and I do not go to chat. I go to Work! so everything is black and white with me at work. work has rules and I abide to them. Call me a dick head or a stubborn guy or whatever, but as long as I love my job and do my best, no one can say anything to me.

it is just that alot of people are blinded and think that coworkers should be friends. I disagree. I could care less what others think of me, since they do not pay me.

I see that The_Jazz is surrounded by people who care about how they look towards others. so that is why they all said, "why is he trying to do that to him".

my dad once told me, "tell me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are." so to me of course The_Jazz will have his buddies or "associates" agree with him.

you have to look at the intentions. people always miss that. I see that Willravels intentions are to help the guy and this may be the only way to help him in his eyes. Maybe even talk to the man. who really knows.

I have ONE close friend that is a cop and I asked him the same thing about this, and he said he would go and try to find the guy. Talk to his people that deal with this and try to get this guy some help. This is coming from a cop that also takes his job seriously, not some friend of The_Jazz who surrounds himself with people who tend to not really care for the core of the issue. (from what I have gotten from The_Jazz in this thread.)

I give you props Will for holding to your beliefs even when people are calling you out with fallacies.

06-26-2008, 11:05 AM	#60 (permalink)
blktour Psycho Location: Anchorage, AK	I actually agree with Willravel. what people dont understand is that he is not looking at it as a "i want to mess this guys career up." but more of a " this guy has a problem, and I am a problem solver." Everyone who thinks he is doing it to ruin the guy, is not even listening to what he is saying. I am sure that there are "many ways to skin a cat" but Willravel chooses to skin it this way. but in reality the guy did it to himself. He needs to take responsibility for his actions. Coke is NOT ok in the work enviorment. when he is coked up and it effects his work, then that is called an addiction. I agree that he gets his point across. In my work envoirment it is black and white. I do not go to make friends, and I do not go to chat. I go to Work! so everything is black and white with me at work. work has rules and I abide to them. Call me a dick head or a stubborn guy or whatever, but as long as I love my job and do my best, no one can say anything to me. it is just that alot of people are blinded and think that coworkers should be friends. I disagree. I could care less what others think of me, since they do not pay me. I see that The_Jazz is surrounded by people who care about how they look towards others. so that is why they all said, "why is he trying to do that to him". my dad once told me, "tell me who your friends are, and I will tell you who you are." so to me of course The_Jazz will have his buddies or "associates" agree with him. you have to look at the intentions. people always miss that. I see that Willravels intentions are to help the guy and this may be the only way to help him in his eyes. Maybe even talk to the man. who really knows. I have ONE close friend that is a cop and I asked him the same thing about this, and he said he would go and try to find the guy. Talk to his people that deal with this and try to get this guy some help. This is coming from a cop that also takes his job seriously, not some friend of The_Jazz who surrounds himself with people who tend to not really care for the core of the issue. (from what I have gotten from The_Jazz in this thread.) I give you props Will for holding to your beliefs even when people are calling you out with fallacies.