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Old 06-25-2008, 01:29 AM   #45 (permalink)
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RetroGunslinger,

Obvious as this sounds, one thing you can do in this situation is listen to her. One thing I have found is that women love guys who listen, and the more you listen, the more they open up to you. Talk to her about everything you can think of. Without being pushy or suggestive, talk about how Mormons treat sex and intimacy. Make her laugh. Maybe even be a little perverted, sometimes. You'll find that conversation in and of itself can be very intimate and sexually satisfying, when done right.

My fianceé, while not Mormon, was much the same as your girl for the first year or so of our relationship. It's been about three years since then, and she's mentioned several times that "the factor" that led her to chose me as her SO was that I took the time to really get to know her. She's mentioned that it's very common for more conservatively raised girls to wait for that "very special someone who understands me" before offering treats.

But yes, as several people have mentioned, once a very repressed, conservative girl opens up to you, you will suddenly have a very wild, sexually demanding girl on your hands, who is willing to try and like almost anything you want. But as long as you let her know that you care for her, she's yours. Don't abuse that trust.

Good luck!
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