sunshine16

We'll Im pretty sure my relationship isnt the worst one ever but this one is pretty shot. Long story Short. He's Very Controlling and Attatched. Oh and did i mention not motivated. I think 3 years of putting up with his jobless ass is pretty well much overwith. Im just in a situation right now where im trying to leave. I have Lots of things I have to take care of by the end of next month! I'm finding it pretty much difficult because Im forking out the bills for everything and trying to expense repairing damages he has done to the apartment is stressing me out! He did recently get a job Graveyard at a fast food joint. And i work 4 10's and get off about 10:00pm everynight and he leaves right around then. So i dont see him often. Ive also been ducking and dodging him For about 2 months now by volunteering for overtime on days off and Leaving with my friends. For the past week Whenever he leaves for work Im storm cleaning the apartment and getting ready. One of the things that Scares me is that when it comes down to Judgement day for him. Im not sure how he'll react. He might Just cry and begg, but one thing im worried about is it might get stubborn and violent. I need some opinion on what i should do when it comes to the actual day to leave and what should i do about everything financially? Any advice out there?