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While I don't have a ton to add to this, but I do feel that those who say things along the lines of "Looks shouldn't matter in a relationship" are so full of shit.
I'd be willing to bet 90% or more relationships are started due to a initial physical attraction. That attraction that led you to that individual just does not disappear when you fall in love. If it goes away, so does part of the love.
But the love is what helps you try to bring that attraction back.
Being fat is *most* of the time a choice. A choice that is unfair to the other person.
Talking solves problems, actions solves problems, being nice and holding your tongue because you should love them no matter what does jack shit.
I'm glad you've worked into the next step of many for your solution. Just don't give up until you've tried everything, or worst cheat on her.
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You bore me.... next.
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