I think it'd help to have some numbers here....
say, she's 5'5" tall and 160lbs...I'd tend to think it's your problem
but if she's 5'5" and 250-300lbs it's a health issue.
don't mean to be crass about it. my gf has gained about 20 lbs since we met. my problem w/ her is she's batshit crazy.
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