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Apples and oranges Hain.
I'd call the police if someone were breaking in to my neighbor's house simply because they're my neighbor and the safety of their home greatly impacts not only the safety of mine but the overall quality of living conditions. Thus, an intimate relationship is created through the close proximity in which we live and the fact that the safety of their home is intrinsically related to mine.
And as dumbnutofak has no real relationship with any of the parties involved and nothing to gain from interjecting his/herself in to this dramafest, it's obvious that the best thing for dumbnutofak is to walk away.
I think that some of your are confusing the issue here. Just as it's obvious enough that what she's doing is wrong, the soon to be husband has a right to know what his fiancé is doing behind his back. However, when the pros and cons (of sticking your nose where it not only doesn't belong but shouldn't even care enough to be) are weighed it proper course of action becomes clear enough.
Save yourself.
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